If Cotton’s story gives the house its emotional grounding, its later residents give it cultural significance.
In 1894, Forest Mere became home to Charles Orman, a major in the Essex Regiment, and his wife, Blanche Lintorn-Orman. Blanche’s father was Field Marshal Sir John Lintorn Simmons, who was Governor of Malta between 1884 and 1888. This is the source of the family’s considerable wealth and social standing. When Sir Lintorn Simmons died in 1903, his estate passed to Blanche.
Blanche was pioneering in her own way. From this 31-roomed house, supported by 12 servants, she formed a Guide Company and became the first County Commissioner for Hampshire East. Forest Mere was no longer simply a private home. It was a place of activity and organisation.
Her only child, Rotha, was brought up with the notion of service. Breaking from the chains that bound females in society, she tried to join the Scout movement, using only an initial rather than her first name so she didn’t give away the fact she was a female. She was among a group of girls who attended the Crystal Palace Scout Rally and directly appealed to Robert Baden-Powell to create an equivalent organisation for girls.
This moment in time, which helped shape what would become the Girl Guides, is part of the story of Forest Mere, shaped, not through its architecture, but through the ideas, ambition and energy of those who lived there.
But Rotha’s later life tells a very different story.
A decorated First World War ambulance driver, she later founded the British Fascists in 1923, the first organisation of its kind in Britain. Her life became increasingly troubled, marked by addiction and decline, and she died at just 40.
Forest Mere, during this period, holds both narratives at once:
Progressive female leadership.
And the emergence of more troubling political ideologies.
It is a reminder that houses, like people, rarely hold simple or singular histories.